So the other day my friend and her boyfriend and I was hanging out...My friend had her boyfriends phone and this girl texted him and was like hey...I had a blast! Can't wait to do it again! She just pretended she didn't see it, because it was suppose to be a special and fun night. So after the night was over she called me and told me what was going on...She asked me if he could be cheating on her...I said idk? Ask him. She is to afraid to ask because she loves him a lot and doesn't want to get hurt. So the question is do you think he could be cheating? What are the signs that a guy is cheating?
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If you suspect your guy is cheating, he's probably cheating. Yes, there are some psycho crazy girls who are jealous and accuse a guy falsely, but frankly I haven't met too many of them. I have met gals who see so many signs and are in denial.
If your guy is making calls, texts, or e-mails to other girls, he's probably cheating or at least keeping his options open. If he is not telling other girls he has a girlfriend now and cannot talk to them, he's probably cheating or at least keeping his options open. If he has a lot of unexplained absences mixed into this, he's probably cheating. If you are finding jewelry, girl's clothing, perfume smells, lipstick stains on him or his person, he is cheating.
If my boyfriend or husband had a message on his phone from a girl that said what that message said, I would definitely believe something was up. I know no man I have been with would ever accept me getting a message like that from a guy. I would expect to catch hell.
Oh, and I see Szexee's question about a guy erasing every girl's number. You know what, when I get into a serious relationship, I do erase guy's numbers. Face it, if they were worth anything I would be seeing them, not my boyfriend. I have no interest in keeping in touch with randoms from my past that obviously never met much to me or thought I met much to them. The only reason you keep the number is an ego boost or to have something on the back burner if this guy doesn't work out. Not cool.0