After 20 years of back and forth drama and verbal abuse, I'm ready to throw in the towel. I've held myself back for years and I'm ready to separate, eventually divorce. He's really upset about it. I just broke the news yesterday. He's buying all kinds of gifts for me; a frikkin MacBook Air!!! Wines, oil changes... I'm not materialistic so this is making me very uncomfortable. I want to move out and on.