It's not unusual for my boyfriend and I to go a day, or maybe two without talking. I hadn't talked to him since Tuesday, when he texted me about something unrelated to the trip. We talked on the phone today and he told me he enrolled in a short session summer class to replace the grade he got when he took it earlier in his college career. The class is Monday through Friday and has a heavy homework load. I asked him if he would still be able to go on the trip and he said he didn't know. He has been aware of this for at least three days and didn't bother to mention it until I asked.
I understand having to re-take the class and he said he'd pay me back for the tickets, but I'm still stuck going to Disneyland by myself or just not going and still wasting money.
I just don't understand how he could go so long without communicating something like this to his girlfriend who he says he loves when I was just trying to do something nice.
Most Helpful Guy
well I've Never been in a relationship, but he might just think it's moving too fast, this sound like a pretty big vacation, and he probably got into the class on purpose and is over playing how much work the class will really be to have an excuse not to go. just talk to him about it, communication is key in a relationship
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you should break up with him over it. He probably didn't tell you right away 'cause he wanted to find a way to go on the trip and catch up on the class. He might have been afraid of how you'd react. You don't know what's going on in his head. Ask him (calmly and politely) why he waited three days to tell you