oh the girl was horrible still you tried thats pretty good. he acted like I pissed him off somehow but I don't know when I did something like that. It was going great and suddenly within a few weeks he changed because of a few tensions he was facing. he was a very nice guy. I just really hope he's not happy after what he did to hurt me soo bad. because I always feel like he takes all his anger out on me. or maybe he just pretended to care and love ne for all these years. women can never pretend but I guess he did.
in my case I did the same thing. partially mad because I blamed her for it not working, partially cause I fully blamed myself for it and felt like it wasn't fair. if he is as nice a guy as I was he might have something that's bothering him that you don't realize. in my case I said things that were bothering me and we're really important but because I didn't yell it or start an argument over it (I felt) it wasn't taken at seriously as it was because it didn't seem like it was.
yeah we were in a long distance relationship so he literally fought with me through text. he has done this before a year ago as well but when we met his love just came rushing back and he was more caring than ever before. I guess there is something thats bothering him. maybe his exams or maybe its because of something I said during a fight between out friends which kind of included our relationship. but he still shouldn't have broken up with me because I didn't say anything to me. most people told me that he was just pretending all these years to love me but that doesn't seem true to me. I mean how can sonebody fake to love and care for someone all these years
well seems like in your case your ex didn't really realise what you were going through and she should've tried figuring it out try to make things work. but I guess she didn't
she didn't until I was ready to break up. then she tried like she should have during the relationship the last time I didn't want to continue the cycle. It took me a while to even figure out why I was unhappy with her. although I actually tried to tell her a reason. if your going to break up with someone the least you owe them is a reason. sorry about your guy
yeah I didn't get any reason. idek what this relationship meant to him
oh it definitely meant a lot. if it didn't matter he wouldn't be mad at you he would just stop talking to you with no effort. the more the relationship meant to him the worse it will feel to lose it.
I don't know he foight with me at first then it seemed like he just wanted some space but I fought even nore so he broke uo at first he was just saying that he's not sure about this relationship after the things that happened but then we fought and he broke up with me. I tried to text hin after a week to just check if he was still mad or has he realized his mistake but this time he didn't even respond. I don't know if he even cared because he said that he'll stay single forever he's weird
single forever= I can't find anyone that will like me or i can't find anyone I'll like. basically he lost faith in finding love. trust if he wasn't saying this before it's definitely the relationship (not necessarily you) that changed him.
yes he has changed. idek if he'll ever come back to senses again. because our families also get along very well and they dont want us to breakup either. he's acting like he's the victim in all this. acting all depressed and saying that he'll stay single forever and he'll die single to his friends. he made me loose faith in love and I can't trust anyone anymore because just a month ago he was still head over heels for me. he can't handle the problems and he just wants to run away every time something bad happens. im bot sure anymore that he ever loved me. I didn't even get a reason. I just want him to be suffering as much as I have with this break up
ugh I did all this stuff you're saying. now that is a lot better (took a couple months of serious trying and thinking) I can think clearer but before that I was an asshole. I projected my feelings on to my ex and tried to make her feel bad. I don't know what he is going through but I really hope w/e happens you both come out well in the other side. he might just be confused. I actually feel so bad about it now I want to apologize to you on his behalf lol
lol 😂 you apologizing on his behalf might just make me feel better.. JK I want hi. to apologize to me soo bad. and yes he always takes all his depression and anger out on me by hurting me like this. and I think too that he's cobfused what to do right now because he did say that he doesn't know what the future holds but right now he doesn't want this
on the bright side choosing you of all the people in his life to express it to means something. so it's not like he totally didn't care. if he wants you to feel bad he still had some connection with you in a bad way. I recommend space
yes maybe. at first I felt ok that he takes it out on me because I mean something to him. but as time passed I realized that hi. taking out his life depressions on me is putting me in a very bad place and is messing with my head. yes im happy to give him space. it turns out I needed space too. but hin sayi. g to his friends that he'll die single is not ok because in his mind he is holding me responsible for him never wanting to be in a relationship again. I don't know what goes on in his mind. but it really helped talking to you. you helped a lot. I appreciate it😊
no problem. best wishes to you and your situation
but they do show like it didn't effect them at all
That's just the way of a guy, to be honest. It's just the idea that they have to be strong in the situation. It's hard though. It really is. I'm sorry if I'm not answering the question correctly.
no by far your answer seems the most accurate to me. the other girla are just talking about fuckboys
I'm talking about guys who really cared but something just led them to break up the relationship of two + years
Then I'm glad I could help.
yes you were very helpful. thanks😊
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even when they are the ones who broke up without such big reasons?
yes they could still be hurting really bad, but that depends on the person.
he was really nice and caring and loving towards me but he changed and there's no other girl either.
well ik a guy that was like that and just got tired of the relationship, ik someone who was like that... and it hurt him very bad. depends.
I think its the same case because he told me that right now he didn't want this. I just hope he's not happy after what he did to me