I've been thinking of messaging my ex lately (Cause I don't see him anymore.. he moved). Which I think is a totally horrible idea because he's a jerk who tried to make me jealous.. How the hell can I get that out of my head? The last time we talked was in February and it didn't end well. I don't want to see him with someone else, I just want to pretend he doesn't exist. Any ideas on how to just push those talking to him thoughts aside?
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Unfortunately, there are no shortcuts in this heartache.. Both my friend and I went through a break up simultaneously..
What worked for me was:
I cried, cried, cried, and cried some more..
Then I slowly started getting over him..
what you will need is a shoulder(or many) to cry on, and also to keep yourself busy..
go for a walk in the park. do something adventurous.
do stuff that require you to go out and experience something new.
Its great that its summer now, so you can go out a lot and do fun stuff.. hope this works :)0