i have been going out with this girl for almost 9 months and we have made love I don't know how many times but some how her ex fiancee keeps getting brought up and she said she is over him but idk.
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Maybe her break up ended badly with her ex and she's still reeling over it. But even still, after being in a NINE month relationship with you, if she's still bringing him up, that's not a good sign.
You need to be honest and communicate with her. Tell her that you don't really like that she's always bringing up her ex-boyfriend and that it upsets you. Ask her why she still talks about him if she's over him?