I've been dating this guy since Feb. I've told him everything about my sexual past because he asked me and I have nothing to hide. However I didn't admit to sleeping with a guy that I mentioned and he later found out once he got my drunk and asked me that I did. Now why does my past matter so much? The reason I lied is because I didn't want him to worry because I met the guy 2 weeks before I met him and we started dating. Now he waited until 3 days after I left (he lives in another state ) to mention that I'm a lier and he can never trust me. He made plans to go to NYC for my birthday on the 9th and even randomly canceled. Was this just a way out?