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I blocked my ex because I was hurt by her not paying me back for something then she got another boyfriend and blocked me to be with him. He broke up with her and I blocked her ever since no plans on taking her off. Her misuse of Social media is what made the relationship fall apart. She didn't want to work, wouldn't look for a job but spent all day talking to men while I was out working 8-12 hours a day. I deleted mutual friends because they kept posting pictures of her having fun. I just don't want to be reminded of her in any way because she was the only one I truly cared for so far.
so you are a person who expect a return?
Thanks. I did expect a return initially because I was good to her. They always comeback after a relationship with me. She did return two months after the break up just to use me she wanted to get back together but I said no because she told me what she was doing with other men. I wasn't talking to anyone just trying to get my mind right. then like I said she blocked me for another guy but when we were together she wouldn't block any of her exs for me. I don't expect anything from her at this point almost a year later. I was very good and faithful to her. She made my heart turn cold. I was just in it accepting bad treatment from someone who's own family said she isn't good enough for me. Didn't listen and Still loved her anyway. That was a mistake. Hopefully things are going horrible for her. If a man blocks you he might expect you to return or maybe not. It depends on the quality of your relationship
If you don't block them, you are regularly reminded of them, makes it just that bit harder moving on. Also, once you are in a new relationship, it can look suspicious if you maintain social media contact with ex-s.
i see that's makes sense but are you gonna block them forever?
Personally, I don't block them at all, but I'm an odd guy. Many guys will block forever. Other guys will just block until the end of their next relationship.Bear in mind though, most guys, when they unblock an ex, it is just in hopes of the ex becoming an easy booty call. (thus why most people are wary of their boyfriend/girlfriend not having an ex blocked)
i see so it's depends on the people who accept it or not right?
Everything of course depends on the people involved. As I said, I haven't blocked my exes. However, that is because I am odd, and have not been with anyone who did not trust me. Unique circumstances can result in no block, but ex being blocked is the default expectation. It seems odd to most when the ex isn't blocked.
i see okay thankyou :)
Because they are ancient history... we moved on.see this: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2439643-exes-why-do-people-care-about-them-so-much
They're a ex, meaning why would I need to keep contact with them? One must learn to let go of their past if they are to embrace their future.
what if you meet them in the future? who knows your ex could be your boss etc?
A job does not define me, nor should it have any bearing on my work performance or private life. Also legally it could be a matter of conflict of interest.
why you would blocked her if you two break up with no hate and agreed the decision both take
For multiple reasons, first it's a fact that dealing with a ex makes it harder to move on because emotional ties. Anger, jealousy and even sex presents itself a problem and risk to moving on to a healthy new relationship. Second, it doesn't sit well with most new s/o and I can understand why. Their feelings regarding the matter should be respected.
Oh, let's not forget how exes love to make either your current partner or you jealous and those are things that can be avoided that a lot of times leads to cheating.
i see but i think they doesn't mean to make you jealous etc right? i think it's depends on the person who can gave tolerance?
The person's intent is definitely a big factor but most of the times in that situation, their intent is to hinder the progress of their ex moving on.
No contact and she's an ex why would I talk to her?
hate seing them happy and better off so avoid all things by bloking as hurts to linger on the past
why must hate them? if the trigger of the break because external issues not internal?
only one of my ex cause me to even use the hate tag as she's done somethings no human should do (its long story) and blocking triggers is only way to stop them
i see i understood but what if you break up because both of you already agreed with the decision?
then no hate would be present unless something happens after (as in my case) or feelings are running wild and need to forget
i see so you wouldn't gonna blocked her there's no hate right?
i wouldn't block for no reason no gotta have a reason as to why otherwise just faze out like a "meh" feeling
good answer thankyou 😊
no problem but can i ask did someone bloke you?
lol we can move to private message if you want it
so I can move on from her and find some one better and not have that thought or maybe she's just really crazy
Because ex can always create problems when you're with a new partner
because we don't like to linger in the past
who knows they gonna be your boss?
i mean like who knows they could be someone that you need at the moment? like you meet again in some several place?
I don't live my life by "what ifs"
ex's do not speak to each other. my parents don't... they've been married 25+ happily
She is redundant
she was Psycho
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