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Listen to the brother and take the emotionally driven statement with a grain of salt.
I don't give sugar coated feel better type of opinion. I call things out as is. It seems here that there's couple things to be considered here.
1) An argument definitely occurrs in any human relationship. But notice that often times arguing back isn't the answer. Really hearing a person out and yielding is important. If neither tried being considerate, Good riddance on both parties.
2) Relationship and marriage isn't about how much you can take from another. It's about how each can serve one another and challenge one another to be better. If people thought of what they can give or offer to another all the time, we wouldn't need to think of what we can get out of it (that is if both had same mindset).
3) I don't care what feminism spout but ultimately There are lots and lots of women who need someone to lean on at the end of the day. It's on your leadership to help steer them away from further complications and love them. There are plenty of destructive situation that becomethe Brest of situations from a kind reaction to an unkind one. So amazing sometimes what unexpected opposite counter reactions can do to a certain stimulation.