He said he loved me. And my kids. My insecurities got the best of me and he broke up through a text message, grabbed his things and left. (He had me pack them up for him) we dated for a year and a half.
He posted "single" on his Facebook before he even grabbed his things...
I'm hurting very bad. I did everything I could for him. I cooked for him, was there for him. Made sure he had coffee for in the morning. Went above and beyond for his son...
The last week we were together he seemed to distance himself. He blames everything on my insecurities and told me the relationship was emotionally draining.
I haven't spoken to him since. When he grabbed his things I told him never to talk to me or my kids again and that I hate him.
I feel so panicked. So upset. I'm doing my best to get over him but this is hard. Does he even hurt? Will he? Will he regret leaving me...
Will I end up hearing from him again?
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Sorry about your terrible experience, but just know that even though it feels like your world is collapsing it's really not and you'll get over this, just give it some time. You need to take off your rose colored glasses and see this situation for what it is. He left you and it sounds like he was very callous about it. Ask yourself this, how do you want your man to treat you? Do you really want a guy who's so disrespectful towards you? Is that really what you think you deserve? You need to love and respect yourself enough to KNOW that you deserve someone who truly care about you and respects you. This guy doesn't fit that criteria, don't even hope of hearing from him again because you can do better. There's MILLIONS of guys out there so go find out that actually treats you well and appreciates you.
You sound like a very kind hearted person so I can see why you fell for him as much as you did. You should watch this video to understand why you feel so strongly about him.0
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