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once happened to me after 4 years of a relationship. you have the right to be angry, cry and to be in pain. But the most important thing is no to hurt yourself or do anything that you will regret. I think it depends on how much you loved him after sometime you will forget. Its difficult i know but its your life, so you are in control.
Speaking from recent experience with great difficulty. if your really into someone it's hard to just erase them from your mind and you end up torturing yourself. Best thing you can do is distract yourself, hang out with friends, read, watch a DVD just keep yourself occupied and don't give in. I've learnt my lesson the hard way!
i finished GOT FRIENDS NARUTO YUGIOH ANGRY MANAGEMENT and many more series just to get use to the emptiness.
Do something fun, scotch, do things that you like but annoyed them, maybe another scotch... usually not though., i do not drink excessivly. Write a whole hell of a lot of free association writing... marvel at how messed up my inner self is. Look at cat pictures and cat videos... dark chocolate...
It would really help if you gave some information on what it is you are talking about. I can assume, but it doesn't give me any idea of what caused it, etc.
Everyone needs something different, a hobby, a good friend, binge watch something, go for walks, music, games. Nature has always been my go to but I've gotten by with just music before. It's always going to be tough but you deserve happiness, take it one day at a time.
see this: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2439643-exes-why-do-people-care-about-them-so-muchNever contact him at all.. ever
Don't daydream about himWhenever he pops into mind even subtlety, change your thoughts , or get up and do something
Find friends for support. Take up a new hobbie. Start working out.
Drink and cry, then get up and go out man hunting for some man bootie.
you cry you yell you crawl up in a blanket and you don't communicate much with the outside world. It's painful but necessary
Easy. We are male. We don't want to hear from you when we are with you many times. If you leave us alone then great, more time to hang out with other guys watch sports drink... or go on the prowl for our next girlfriend.
if i were you, depending on the situation, id initiate contact asap.
why? he's not being very nice :(
thats why i said depends on the situation, but if your all broke up, then move on and if i were you find someone else.
I don't know he was just all of a sudden making weird jealous comments that weren't like him at all. Then he started overly sharing that he was "out with other girls" with the intent of making me jealous, i think. Then I asked him to come with me to celebrate my birthday and he is now totally unavailable... for like... the rest of the summer. I dont know what to do because he won't tell me whats going on
i think he's just looking for an excuse to break up and he found someone else or he is really jealous and wants you to be forward about things with him. but i dont know im not him im just guessing here.
We aren't dating. We are one of those weird flirty, close friendships thats basically dating but with no title. He's an important person in my life. I don't know... I never know if I should push and try to work it out with someone or if I should run and protect myself.
oh i can see why he's annoyed with you. you dont know what you want, and guys hate that. guys want girlfriends who are forward about things.
Haha. Actually... about a year ago he was the one who said I was too young for him. So I dont know
thats strange, how old are you and how old is he?
I'm 21, he's 30
thats a lame excuse from him. seriously.
i know. We are in touch constantly... like all day every day. We flirt and touch each other a lot. He's always a gentleman and has saved the day numerous times for me. He frequently tells me how attractive I am, and how much I underestimate myself... and how I'm impossible to be mad at because of my sweet little face. I have obviously continued to see other people and so has he... but recently after posting some photos of me and a guy I was out with... he made some jealous remarks... one of which was "why dont you ask your man friend on your snapchat story." I don't know its just weird.
well if you have someone new i suggest you cut all ties with that weird guy friend.
We have great, mad chemistry. I enjoy having him in my life... and he has been a good friend. Its difficult to get rid of someone this active in your life... especially someone you regularly converse with between the hours of midnight and 3 am lol. I know he cares a lot for me and I care a lot for him.
have you told him that?
told him what exactly?
about how you feel about him that you just told me about.
Not specifically... no. I mean... he's the one who said I was too young for him
then forget him and find someone else, your better than that.
how do you know when to talk it out then?
whatcha mean by that?
Like... some things you really need to sit the person down and talk to them... really air out all of the things and get to the bottom of what is going on. Other things... you just ghost and vanish because its not worth working on. How do you know which it is?
he told you your too young for him, that should be enough for you to realize there's nothing there, sorry, but you have to forget him and move on.
he said it a year ago. And a year of a good friendship has happened between then and now. If its not about a relationship... is it not working out with him?
well duh that means forget him lol
i dont really want to date him... I want to date someone else, but I still want him in my life. And there is very clearly a problem
yes but just to let you know boyfriends dont want a girlfriend who has a guy friend, that spells bad news all over and will make a girlfriend seem like a cheater or wannabe cheater.
You mean you broke up? How 'bout live it up! Be thankful you dodged a huge bullet. :)
Hang out with friends and family or do other mind occupying things
Hire someone, the economy is bad for them too
Did you try talking to him?
hahahaha please see long conversation with CriticalMass
Sounds like he's going out of his way to let you know it isn't going to happen
what are you referring to
It sounds like he's telling you he doesn't want to be with you.
alcohol and really good friends
I shut down and binge watch TV
Delete them on everything and block them
when your guy you talk to every day, all day and see all the time isn't treating you right, you start to go into no contact. This means you completely ignore him, dont text him... dont call him... nothing. You basically vanish into thin air. It sucks because I miss him and want him in my life, but he's not being nice to me right now... so I need to go away for a while
I think you answer your own question His changed and by the sound of it By treating you this way he is letting you be the to break things off as he hasn't got the courage to do so It's a common fault that some guys have But you have been strong and wise to take the protective stand
go and date yourself
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