We have been together for a year and a half, met on-line, moved in together after 4 months and have been together ever since. This is my first long relationship and honestly my first true love. Recently his ex-girlfriend found him on where else, but Facebook and they have been chatting ever since. She was his first true love, said it was love at first sight, even though she broke up with him twice and lost her virginity to the guy she dumped him for. He has even said if she came to the door he would have to "think" about going back to her! It's been at least 20 years since they have been together! He says I'm been crazy and somewhat psycho and I want to cause her harm, but that's not the case. I read his text(yes I know that is wrong, but did it anyways) and she asked if he dream t about her and he answered yes and woke up frisky that day and of course we had some great sex later, but all I can do is be hurt and upset. She lives a 1000 miles away, but I can't help but be hurt and upset and worry that something more might come of their chatting. Am I crazy to worry so much, or how do I get through to him how much it hurts me without looking needy and crazy?