He he says he really loves me but if I don't stop he'll have to break up with me
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How much time do you spend together? "Partner" plus 4 years makes me think you know each other pretty well.
Do you get together every day? Or only on weekends?
Look, what I'm wondering is whether or not you want to spend every minute of every day together, and he wants to go shoot hoops with the guys. And he doesn't appreciate you tagging along.
Or it could be you want to see him more than twice a week, and he wants to play video games. Until he's lonely, which is Tuesday and Friday evenings.