So, this guy is a classmate in campus. We dont have a title, we sorta 'friends with benefits'. From the first, i dont want a relationship with him, knowing he doesn't complete my criteria. He hit on me October 2016, i was just lonely and I thought i could just have fun w/ him. So we've been fucking since then.
As time passed, i showed him that i dont wanna have title with him, then he starts being an asshole. He did everything that would hurt my feelings.
He starts hitting up on random girls, even hoe typical. I caught him smoking around me, even though i already said i dont like it.
Like, i already told him, everything that he did was hurting me. But he always flip it back to me like i was the one at fault, i was too sensitive.
And yea, he never said sorry.
But when i told him not to fuck anymore, he always pulled me back, he changed his behavior for a few moments, but every time i think im getting him back, he starts to do the asshole stuff all over again.
Recently, i stopped contacting him, and i start to responding some guys. He knew it and he was being more cold but yet, still stop me from walking away.
I dont want to get him back, im just really mad at myself, why would i let me trust him from the first place, how i could let him fucking me over, i feel i disrespected myself over and over gain everytime i let him fuck me.
Its been 2 weeks since last time we fought and we stopped fucking, even though the contact is still going on.
I know it sounds dumb, but i can't let him go, not yet. I dont know what i want, but im sure i dont want him back or even having a title with him.
I'm just so sad and mad, he shows no remorse at all. I wanna make him sorry about me. But what should i do? What do i want? Whats best for me to move on?
Most Helpful Guy
If you don't like being with someone, don't stay with them. If he forces you to be with him, get a restraining order.1
Most Helpful Girl
YOU DO WANT HIM BACK, ITS OBVIOUS. you feeling hurt is your way of being a victim, cuz he wanted to go straight with you, YOU didn't, so you're not allowed to tell him to do things or not do things, only gf's have that priviledge, if you dont wanna go straight, thats you letting him know you're cheating on him too, he doesn't want no filthy pussy, you dont want no filthy dick, but no ones giving it to you like him, so now you're salty and want to make him look like the bad guy, sry honey, this has guilt written all over it.0