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Why would she do that?, you are cute. What's the back story? She freaky or what? Maybe she has a lot of fantasies and desires she won't communicate with you. She might want you and another man to bang her like a headboard, at the same time. I'm sorry if I sound callous but I don't get why she keeps cheating. Sometimes it's not you it's the cheater.
hehe thank you. no she's not freaky. she's just stupid. the back story is this. ok. after we got married back in 2012. she told me she dont love me and that she regrets for getting married. and the after having our daughter. few months later she started cheating. but I believe she cheated me before that too. I tried to make it work because I loved her. but she saw me as someone weak. she cheated on me 3x. and now it's the final straw. she now realized how great I was to her. she broke my heart so many times. can't be healed by her. I lost everything for her.
Yeah you should leave then, she does sound like she doesn't want to be married. DO not force it. The more you hold on, the more it will hurt and you'll only be delaying your chance of finding the one. Sorry to hear about all that though.
thank you! I appreciate your positivity
How many times do you need your heartbroken before you get it into your head she don't love you? she has you on a string of she loved you she wouldn't cheat.. your going to end up with a disease from her
I understand. thank you love
You forgave her twice and she does it again. She doesn't respect you because you don't respect yourself. You're acting like a bitch and you want to forgive her again? Stop acting like a joke and leave the whore.
but you say that thinking you know how I am with her. it's all good. I accept all options
What you said is all the information I really need. If she has cheated this many times, then she doesn't respect you. I'm not trying to just be a dick but people on here telling you that she's a bad person blah blah isn't going to really help you. She's a shit quality person, that's a given. The fact is that you allowed this to happen time and time again. She walks all over you and cheats because you allow her to. When I was military my girl cheated on me. I fucked up the kid who she did it with and told her we're done and are now strangers. That was it. You evidently don't respect yourself. You need to nut up and divorce her and move on. Don't keep making the same mistakes. You don't want your daughter being raised by a woman like that. Get a good attorney, divorce her, and shoot for custody over your daughter.
I got you bro. that's exactly what I'm thinking!!
bitch don't deserve me!
sounds like a cow to be honest are you wealthy or something could there have been a reason for marrying you. Sorry I don't believe that she thought she loved ya, loving something is a definite thing and you feel it always.
no I'm not. I do make 85k a year. but that's not wealthy.
when we got married I wasn't making that. I was making 26k a year
I don't know about your lifestyle but I'd say that's a lot in whichever country. My home life for both my parents and 2 siblings we live on around 19k a year. Which country do you live in, if you don't mind me asking?
not at all. America. but I'm originally from Moldova. next to Romania
were you working less and spending more time together before getting married
no. she was 190 milles away from me. and I was visiting Every week for over 1 year
the only other thing I can think of is if it was her that moved to you and she couldn't handle being that far away from home, but either way she sounds selfish
she is. unbelievably!
No... even if she were to stay faithful (which I doubt she would) why would you want to spend the rest of your life wondering whether or not she is being faithful? You deserve better.
totally agree. thanks
She doesn't respect your marriage and the commitment it symbolizes. You even gave her a second chance which is more than most would and she ignored that again. You should divorce her.
thank you luv!!
She will do it again (it's very likely) so I wouldn't forgive her if I were you.
He should leave BBC she is cheating little bitch
I know it's going to be hard for your daughter, but you have to leave her, what if your daughter finds her cheating I can't imagine what will go through her head. Just divorce her... and fight for your daughter
The first time should have been the last time. Move on from her or start cheating yourself so you both can have an illusion of marriage.
You should have broken up looooong ago. If she knows she can get away with it, and keeps doing it... why would you let her use you like that. Leave her!
You deserve better bruh. First time she cheated, you should have walked out already. Once a cheater, always a cheater for the most part
I don't think she's ever going to stop cheating. Just leave her, you deserve better.
dump her. once a cheater always a cheater. it's just the way it is.
no. forgiving her is basically saying "yes darling, i will forgive you again when you cheat on me next time with some other guy for the umpteenth time". i would leave her and call a divorce
You should leave bro once a cheater always a cheater.
You should have already dumped this treacherous cunt you call wife.
Hell no ! You should've left the first time
ok but I was thinking of our daughter. and I really hoped she'll stop. I guess hope does die last.
she needs to stop nd what made her to cheat
ok. after we got married back in 2012. she told me she dont love me and that she regrets for getting married. and that was half a year after we got married. and that's just tip of the iceberg
something went wrong because if she didn't love u then why marry u
very good question! I ask myself the same thing. i did everything by the book.
I would suggest u sit her down or calm her down make her comfortable nd ask herbabe what have I done wrongwhat is my mistakepls talk to melet's sought this outthen it will be revealed
not making this up but I already did that. she says i didn't do anything wrong to her. and when I ask her why then get married? she doesn't answer or says I thought I loved you.
she's lying I would suggests u do it again there's always a reason
No. Leave her and take everything that she owns.
No. get out of there. you deserve better.
i guess no
aw hell no
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