Most Helpful Guy
If you compare your achievements on your romantic goals to those of an ex, then you have started on the wrong foot.
That he has reconstructed his emotional life with a new person does not imply he is happier than you. You are analyzing it from the perspective of a person who hasn't got over her previous relationship and is still hurt.
I don't blame you, you are young and that is a common trait.
Don't rush for anything. The good will come. Good things are not better because they arrive sooner.
Most Helpful Girl
Are you out there and giving yourself a chance to find someone new? Or are you being a bit miserable and feeling sorry for yourself and therefore maybe projecting that and scaring guys off and them not wanting to approach you.
Just go out to have fun, if guys see you out having fun being happy carefree and the life of the party that's attractive they will want to know who you are.
Don't think about your ex and what he's doing. It's got nothing to do with you and your situation. Just do you and be the best happy you you can be. And watch the difference it makes!!