Back a few years ago, I dated a guy (we will call him J) and J broke up with me the day after we started dating. Fast forward to the nest year, I met a guy (we will call him P) and we started dating and I have been with him 2 years and still going on. Anyways a month ago J and I became friends and started talking. I have always still liked J bu I have never shown it. J flirts with me and I sort of flirt back. (what can I say, I'm a flirt). J and I can never be together all because I have a boyfriend. There is a part of me that says I should keep dating P but there is this one part of me that keeps growing that says I should break up with P. It seems like I don't love P anymore and it feels like he can't make me happy anymore. They are both so sweet and so kind. What should I do?