Most Helpful Guy
Marriage is an institutional contract. Not in mens benefit that's just fact. If a partner m/f asks to sleep around then they probably already are/going to anyways. The trust is broken & there is no loyalty or love there. Close the book & move on. In response the reason some people think that allowing an open marriage is going to save their marriage is because they have obligations (children, home etc.) & fear of loss (financial, kids, home etc.) is why they don't just do the right thing & divorce which is kinder to themselves & kids (been there done that). These people want their cake & eat it too. I used to agree with your comment " divorce rate is so high because people stop fighting they just give up" but truth is marriage is now antiquated as technology & society has created a world where infidelity is easily achieved. Laws are imbalanced & people feel entitled with better (entitled) & don't value what they have. I'm MGTOW for a reason. Like it don't, don't care, just my two cents. But you're comment sounds like you have a head on your shoulders. Cheers.
Most Helpful Girl
Ya f*ck that, if my husband wanted to go sleep with other people, he's more than welcome but he certainly won't have a wife to come home to anymore if he does. It doesn't save a marriage, it pretty much destroys and crushes it.