If you think that allowing your partner to sleep around or bring in another person is a way of saving your marriage. you are preparing yourself for a divorce. If you truly love someone that thought won't even cross your mind. What has become of the human race. if you want to save your marriage fight for each other dont give up. The divorce rate is so high because people stop fighting they just give up. if Love is fucking around to keep things right. Then ill rather not have love.
Most Helpful Guy
Marriage is an institutional contract. Not in mens benefit that's just fact. If a partner m/f asks to sleep around then they probably already are/going to anyways. The trust is broken & there is no loyalty or love there. Close the book & move on. In response the reason some people think that allowing an open marriage is going to save their marriage is because they have obligations (children, home etc.) & fear of loss (financial, kids, home etc.) is why they don't just do the right thing & divorce which is kinder to themselves & kids (been there done that). These people want their cake & eat it too. I used to agree with your comment " divorce rate is so high because people stop fighting they just give up" but truth is marriage is now antiquated as technology & society has created a world where infidelity is easily achieved. Laws are imbalanced & people feel entitled with better (entitled) & don't value what they have. I'm MGTOW for a reason. Like it don't, don't care, just my two cents. But you're comment sounds like you have a head on your shoulders. Cheers.1
Most Helpful Girl
Ya f*ck that, if my husband wanted to go sleep with other people, he's more than welcome but he certainly won't have a wife to come home to anymore if he does. It doesn't save a marriage, it pretty much destroys and crushes it.3