Some days I feel I'm over him, I'm confident, I look and talk to other guys, I wish him the best in life and tell myself he isn't worth what I gave him.
Other days I hate him, I want to hurt him as much as he did me, i don't talk to other guys, I'm jealous and selfish, I don't want him to have a good life and I just want him back in my life.
It's just really confusing me, because he broke up with me about 7 months ago. I thought I would be over him by now.
Has anybody else experienced this?
Most Helpful Guy
It's perfectly normal what you're feeling. Nothing wrong with that. Many people feel that way.
You just didn't get to have the thing we call "closure".
Let me guess, he did something to you and you never got the chance to get angry with him over that or he never actually admitted his wrong doing to you?1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm experiencing this with my ex right now. I have really good days (like today) where I wouldn't dream of ever getting back with him and I know in the future I will find someone miles better than him. And then I have bad days (like I did last Monday) where I think I need him back because I will never find anyone like him. But the bottom line is, he was a dickhead and I am better off without him. Just keep giving yourself pep talks on how much better off you are and how you will find someone so much better in the future. These bad days become far and few in between and you'll eventually find you won't have any bad days at all anymore! Good luck😊1