One night he calls me on the phone and says he loves me more than the world, and then after an argument he says breaking up is best and he's done with the distance. That was all in one week. I tried continuously to make it work and change his mind, but we eventually just agreed to stay friends and that we'd always love each other. The first few days I was a mess sobbing, I didn't want to lose him. But now, he's been such a jerk to me. He told me he doesn't love me anymore, which hurt so bad. He'll ask me for naked pictures, brag about the girls he's been fucking, fucks with my head and let's his friends be mean to me, makes fun of me. He's just changed completely he's not the same person I knew and fell in love with. He drinks, smokes weed, does other drugs, steals all the time now. Part of me is like I'm done with this shit and I deserve better. But the other part is saying that, no matter what I'll always love him and care about him, and I feel as though I'm giving up and what if that's not the right choice?
Most Helpful Guy
To be honest, I would like to tell you that he is simply an asshole and you should forget about him.
But I know psychology engough and I know this kind of behavior doesn;t come from nowhere... That kind of radical behavior usually comes from some kind of pain. He probably is convinced that you hurt him and not the other way around. And now he is doing all this too you because "you deserve it".
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like he's immature and doesn't know what he wants. There's nothing wrong with you, remember that. If you choose to move on from this you will find someone better eventually, and you'll feel better overall eventually. Any guy that wants to date you will not flirt with other females or send nudes. Period. I hope this helps.