Everyone keeps saying things like "get over it" and "move on", but it's so hard to forget about someone. It's so easy to say than to do. I don't think I'll be happy until I replace my feelings for him with someone else, and it's going to take me a while to find someone.
Most Helpful Guy
Well boyo... You are right... Things are not easy in life and our feelings and sentiments makes us the most complex specie upon Earth. Once you break up from a RP that you've invested your time in, you will feel a "mess", in fact you will be a "mess"... Afraid, insecured and always wondering if they miss you, or even think about you... Worry not, because they do... They just won't say anything.
Anyway, I've been in that zone and I got out of it. I think the best advice that I could give would be - Dont try to replace somebody, with someone else - Replacing people won't solve your mess, in fact you will hurt the new people in your life too.
Try to invest time into yourself.. Either by a hobby, a new job, new clothes or cellphones, going out with friends or playing video games. You can try photography and this I recommend a lot... travel to unexplored zones of your city or places around and capture the best shots you can get... and when you feel ready have no worries to go out and flirt once again.
Most Helpful Girl
I know exactly how you feel but I can tell you I'm out the other side and I promise it gets better. Unfortunately time is the best healer but I'll try and give you a couple of tips. My best one is get angry!! If there's any way you can, turn the sadness into anger and it won't hurt as much. Surround yourself with people that care, not the ones that refuse to understand. My mum was my saviour, I was at uni when my relationship ended and I was on the phone in tears to my mum almost every day, it was a nightmare but she got me through it.1