There is one girl I fell in love with when I was 16. I am 24, and a part of me still loves her. Its even harder for me to move on because women don't want me AT ALL. Absolutely no girl ever before or after her was interested in me even 1%. So the fact she is the only one on this planet who actually wanted me at one point, makes it even harder for me to move on. I know people usually forget somebody they loved by finding somebody new. But this is impossible for me, I have been trying like 3 years before and 7 after her, and the only thing I learned is that Im gonna die alone and a virgin. Are there any other ways to forget a person?
Most Helpful Girl
one part is acceptance and knowing you loved them the second is knowing that you will get over them just like other things that have happened in the past one thing i did was write down how i felt and the cons of it. you need to be more positive, you will not die alone and i think why it hasn't happened is because you are soooo eager and impatient the person who will be right for you will come into your life when you least expect them to and they will be worth the wait. also stop thinking about her so much i know its hard but the more you think about them the worse it makes it so try keep yourself busy even with hobbies and stop this negative aspect of you will not find anyone.0
Most Helpful Guy
I know how you feel, I had an awfully rough time after my first breakup, which actually lead to be found with a knife to my wrist in the bathroom at school. Anyway, with that being said, I just turned to new music (stuff I hadn't ever listened to), and tried my damned hardest to just not think about her. Another thing that worked for me, was spending more time with your male friends, especially if you can make a new one. Go camping, go to the gym, hell, go throw rocks at cars driving by for pete's sake! The saying is true, when one door closes, another one opens. Your girl is out there somewhere, trust me, you just haven't met her, you can't really die alone and a virgin unless you absolutely try. Probably didn't help but I figured I would pitch in my two cents for the hell of it. Hope anyone reading this can take something from it.2
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