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I was deployed, 7 months into a 15 month deployment. We were engaged. Phone calls were few and far between, it's about an 11 hour difference. We were mostly keeping in touch through email and texts. Those began to get scarce too. I noticed some oddities on social media and asked one of my close friends back home about it. He got real quiet and told me she started dating someone after we broke up, and she said I was taking the breakup hard and to not bring it up with me.Up until that second I thought we were engaged. She told or friends, and my family her lie to hide it from me. We had known each other for years, and it hurt. Every so often she tries to come back into my life and it hurts, and pushing her away hurts too.I moved on at first, when it was still raw, by surviving one day, one step, one moment at a time. Eventually it faded from my mind, I didn't think about her very often, and my life got better. I've had other, normal relationships since with all the pop and fizzle of normal dating.
I am sorry to hear thatI hope you found someone that is treating you betterAnd as someone in a long distance relationship, myself, I'm sorry she did that.
ooooooh man. that's bullshit.so sorry you went through that
it ended up working out in the long run, she turned out to be (unsurprisingly) kind of a terrible person. I'm just glad I wasn't allowed the ability to wallow in it when it happened.
That's great. I mean that you dodged the bullet.
you sound like a nice person
it's funny how sometimes fate will throw us a bone like that.I'm a merchant Marine and went through something similar (not half as bad though) if I was home I may have done things I'd regret. by the time I got home I was alright. (ish)
This was the first in a string of events of crazy chaos in my personal life that ends with me nearly flying to Germany to marry a girl I hadn't actually met. Luckily my brain reeengaged before that, and that part is funny to look back on now.
did you meet her instead? :p
No, I realized that being manipulated into a green card marriage was probably not a smart choice to make. I went home met a girl and dated her for a few years while everything else settled back into normalcy.
lame lol German women are freaks! ;)
I fell in love with the vest friend that i ever had. Had so much feelings for him but still didn't notice it. I couldn't admit to myself that I was in love with him and had feelings for him way more than just friendship. When I realised it one day, it was too late to tell him because he was dead.Couldn't even tell him how I felt, couldn't even make him happy or anything, because he just simply died.How do I handle it? I don't. My eyes are constantly swollen cause of tears. I'm dead inside. Don't eat anymore, don't talk either.If you ever fall in love, just tell that person no matter what. And tc too, health is most important thing ever.
hey i m so sorrythe same is with me but she is alive and now I am definitely going to tell himu r so good and thanks for sharing you motivated me
I was woth this guy for three years now. childhood acquaintances. everyone around knew he lived me more than I loved him. I was nore of a closed book and he was expressive. the. n we started fighting alit and he broke up with ne but that was ny fault mostly so I made the effort and made things right. but I said no to co tact calls, texts etc. just occasional texts and meet ups. after this he fell even harder for me , he got a little hesitant and stopped telling me he lived me but started showing through his actions how much he loved me. his actions made me feel like the queen of the world. all went great for a year and gradually I started doing the same showing care etc. but then a month ago he broke up with me again. and the excuse he made was that I was getting too attached.
he literally took all his love back. and he says to his friends that he will never get a girlfriend. I don't know if he's sad, hurting or happy. idek the actual reason for the rbeakup. we fought. he said some things I said somethings and instead of making it work he gave up and broke up with me. really hurts
Loved someone with all that i had. Poured my heart for her. She left me, cause she thought that i loved her too much and that it's best to break up early to avoid complications. :/ Difficult to forget but then i somehow managed to move on.. However never been in a relationship since..
I've had a girlfriend who sadly cut her life short due to bullys
married only 7 months, cause her cheating with the guy she dumped for me
O__OI am sorry for that
oh I could tell you one
sure tell me
So there's Ryan, Tyson and Emily.Tyson and Emily are together. Ryan is the best friend of Tyson.Unfortunately it can't last, because Emily is sick... And she wants to put an end to it through euthanasia. She doesn't know if she could tell her boyfriend. It would break his heart. So she decides that it may be better for Tyson to hate her rather than him knowing the truth about what's going on.She says this to Ryan gives him a ring. So he can give it back to Tyson when the time comes. (A couple ring that her boyrfriend Tyson bought her, a ring for both him and her).
Tyson and some other friends happen to walk in on his girlfriend giving the ring to his best friend. He gets furious of course and as soon as Emily walks off, Tyson confronts Ryan about this.Ryan now having the ring, remembers that Emily doesn't want the truth to be known so he improvizes... He says that he and Emily are dating now. Tyson feels betrayed and angry, rightly so. The situation gets tense. The other friends try to keep both Ryan and Tyson seperated.But it escalates and Tyson throws a punch. Ryan fights back. After a brief exchange of blows, Ryan ends up on the ground, Tyson still going after him, but he is stopped by his friends. Both friends are now 'back in check'. Tyson walks away, angrily kicking down a bin on the way.
A few days later, Emily and Ryan meet again. Ryan tells her what happened, showing her the injuries he's gotten from Tyson.Again, Tyson walks in on this. And as soon as Emily and Ryan notice Tyson, they put up the act of dating eachother. Ryan wraps his arm around Emily.Tyson is angry, doesn't know how to react as he is a bit in shock seeing them together, he walks away?Tyson is heartbroken. His love cheated on his bestfriend. His bestfriend betrayed him. He feels powerless. Walking back home, he bumps into several people, still shocked, sad...As he gets in his room he ends up wrecking his whole room. He knocks over the plants, flips the table, throws a chair into photos he had of him and her together.He kneels down at a now torn up room. Feeling powerless. He still loves her, he just doesn't know why this is all happening.
is that a movie?
Meanwhile at the hospital, Ryan and the other friends have gathered around Emily's bed. Saying their goodbyes.Yan, one of the friends, feels like Tyson deserves to know and should be given a final goodbye as well.So yan goes out of the room and calls Tyson and tells him that she's sick and in the hospital. Tyson starts running through the hospital, tearing up, but he keeps running. He has got to see her.
To*Anyway, Emily gets taken away to the room. Tyson arrives at the hospital, and as he runs to the room, he meets Ryan along the way. Tyson looks down, ignoring the Ryan, walking further. But Ryan grabs Tyson's wrist.Ryan gives Tyson back the couple ring saying that Emily really loved Tyson, and that she always did. As Ryan walks away, Tyson now realizes what was going on this whole time.Emily has cancer and wants to end her life, but doesn't wants her boyfriend Tyson to see her die. So she rather had Tyson hate her than see him know that she's going to die. Ryan giving up his friendship with Tyson to grant Emily her final wish.Tyson arrives to the room with friends waiting outside, but the doors are closed. The euthanasia has already begun. Tyson's too late, and breaks down. They comfort Tyson and eachother.As they open the doors, Tyson hovers over a now passed away Emily, saying his final goodbyes.The End.
Nope, but it's so depressing :(
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