Most Helpful Guy
I was deployed, 7 months into a 15 month deployment. We were engaged. Phone calls were few and far between, it's about an 11 hour difference. We were mostly keeping in touch through email and texts. Those began to get scarce too. I noticed some oddities on social media and asked one of my close friends back home about it. He got real quiet and told me she started dating someone after we broke up, and she said I was taking the breakup hard and to not bring it up with me.
Up until that second I thought we were engaged. She told or friends, and my family her lie to hide it from me.
We had known each other for years, and it hurt. Every so often she tries to come back into my life and it hurts, and pushing her away hurts too.
I moved on at first, when it was still raw, by surviving one day, one step, one moment at a time.
Eventually it faded from my mind, I didn't think about her very often, and my life got better. I've had other, normal relationships since with all the pop and fizzle of normal dating.
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Most Helpful Girl
I fell in love with the vest friend that i ever had. Had so much feelings for him but still didn't notice it. I couldn't admit to myself that I was in love with him and had feelings for him way more than just friendship. When I realised it one day, it was too late to tell him because he was dead.
Couldn't even tell him how I felt, couldn't even make him happy or anything, because he just simply died.
How do I handle it? I don't. My eyes are constantly swollen cause of tears. I'm dead inside. Don't eat anymore, don't talk either.
If you ever fall in love, just tell that person no matter what. And tc too, health is most important thing ever.