Literally a day after my boyfriend and I broke up, he started talking to this new girl. I won't type her name. Me still being heart broken over him, I was always looking at his pictures on FB and remembering the times that we shared together every once in a while.
Well about a week and a half later, I see that his relationship status changed from "single" to "in a relationship with ..." It tore me up thinking that he could move on so fast.
All of my friends say she's a rebound. But I've also heard from a couple of people that he's gotten with this girl before also after a nasty breakup with another one of his long time girlfriends.
Do you think she's a rebound?
Or do you think that he really feels for her since he keeps going back to her?
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Well, if he ran to this girl after a previous break-up, they obviously didn't work out. He met you after all. Maybe even being with her helped him get over the previous break-up. Now that he has to recover from another break-up, he ran to what is familiar. The same woman who he used to get over the last girl.
I know how hard it is, my ex recently did something very similar.. But try not to worry about it. He won't be happy with her. He wasn't the first time. If he really felt for her, he wouldn't use her to get over someone. Take comfort knowing that he will never be truly happy with her.
And don't contact him about her. He is most likely waiting for you to notice and send a deservingly jealous message to his fb inbox. I would recommend deleting him from Facebook for the time being until you can acknowledge the fact that he will be close with other women, without breaking into tears. You don't need to be constantly reminded of his immature rebound games. Hide his status updates at the very least.0