So long story short, I started off friends with this girl, started really liking her, then she said, when asked, that I "was a really great guy and she really likes me as a friend but does not feel for me that way". I didn't take it personally and we still talked for a while. A few weeks ago I said I valued her as a friend and she said "we can talk whenever!". So lately I have tried texting/Facebook or whatever to start a conversation but it seems like she doesn't really care about talking.
I feel like I made A LOT of effort to get to know her (I enjoyed it) but she didn't really get a chance to get to know me. I feel like the best thing for me to do is to meet another girl. I really liked her personality but I think trying to talk anymore may push her away.
Am I right to intentionally show a lack of interest toward her? Or am I overreacting about the whole situation?
Any help is appreciated!
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I remember seeing a quote somewhere that highlighted how completely illogical this type of scenario is... To paraphrase, it went something like this:
It's like applying for a job interview, and being told by the interviewer that, even though you're the perfect candidate for the job, they will never hire you, and instead complain to you whenever they end up dissatisfied with the one(s) they hired over you.0