Recently my boyfriend and I broke up because things in our relationship started to go downhill; he broke up with me. This was also partially mixed with his emotional health. What caused our relationship to go downhill was a guy I used to like before me and my ex met, who tried to come between us and stir rubbish that wasn't true. After that me and my ex started to argue now and then, and he lost feelings claiming that it wasn't how it used to be. I still have feelings for him though, and I want to know if there's any possible way we'd be able to try again? We were together for 3 months, not that long I know, and now we're friends instead. We still talk daily.
Help... what do you think?
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I'm sorry about what happened.
If your first ex is going straight to the person who is in a relationship with you, then your problem isn't with your first ex, it is with your current relationship.
strongly consider whether you can trust a person who is going to take an ex's word over your own.
talk to him about why he's speaking to your first exs and why it is causing problems.
If you can't work it out rationally and amicably as adults, by talking through it, by listening to what he need and vice-versa, then this relationship is not going to work.
sorry, but don't take it as your first ex win... he just made you see that trust in your current relationship between you and the second ex is very weak.0