i wanna study n stop distracting myself by being in a relationship but my girl says she will kill herself if i leave what should i do... i wanna study but being with her really distracts i m in 12th so u know how important this year is
Most Helpful Girl
Its not her choice its yours so think of yourself first and leave her dont worry about her feelings if this is so important to you, tell her if she won't understand that you need to leave her you gonna have to either tell her parents she is forcing you to stay with her and threatening to kill herself surely then she won't carry on, or tell her its only for this year that you leaving her then you can see what happens the end of the year when you done with 12th grade1
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Most Helpful Guy
Say, 'I'm not going to let you control my life. I am not responsible for you. We are not married. BUT if you ever make me think you're serious I WILL tell your family so they can help you.'
Then the next time she makes the threat tell her patents. If she is bluffing she will suddenly learn not to do that. If she was serious, well she needed help anyhow.
Nice people get taken advantage of so you have to look out for yourself and not let people use your good nature to get you to do things you don't want to.