I know this breakup was the right thing for me to do. I know he wasn't healthy and constantly drove me crazy, but he was my first love and the love made it hard to leave but it wasn't reciprocated. I got closure this time because I had the balls to call him and things ended amicably. I can't begin to put into words how much pain I am in. My body literally aches. My body feels shaky and my mind feels scattered and fried. When I walk, it's like I'm just dragging so much heavy weight and I feel just out of my body. I will think of him a lot and even cry a lot. I will cry about things completely unrelated to him because my emotions are just haywire. I feel like a walking zombie. I read somewhere that
emotional pain activates the same pathways in the brain as physical pain. Which I can testify for.
Has anyone experienced such pain after a breakup? How do you get through it?
Most Helpful Guy
they say there's a very fine line between love and hate.
hate is a very powerful emotion you have to use it wisely.
you need to hate him for leaving and abandoning you.
even if a nice thought of him comes in your head, you need to say fck that dickhead and move on.
you need to hate the idea of being with him. eventually even the idea will sicken you.
remember though this doesn't have to be indefinite, just as long as you still give a shit about him. eventually you won't care about him anymore and you'd be happy to move on.
I know it's a bit extreme but you can't keep feeling sad, that's very unhealthy in the long run.
Most Helpful Girl