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No one can answer this question unless they knew the specifics of your situation with her. Or, the real reason for the break up in the first place. Not knowing those things. I can only assume it's because she has been hurt. She loves you and doesn't want to let you go. But, whatever happened made it to where she doesn't want to actually see you.
Well pretty much I had told her I'm young that I'm interested in experiencing more world that I'm tired of comforming to her ways... the reason why I had said this was because I thought she was going to break up with me first.
Awe, so you didn't mean it?
no I did not she believes I said it so I meant it.
So, let me get this straight. If a guy believes you will leave them. They will lie to you about wanting more world? I'm sure that you were tired of conforming. Guys don't like feeling trapped. Who left who? Maybe you were not ready to settle down with only one? Again, I'm assuming because I do not know you. Now that she's gone. You see all the good that you had. But, I have bad news for you. Once the seed is planted in her head it's extremely difficult to get it out. So you will have your work cut out for you!
oh believe me I went through hell... So I stopped pushing. I just let her go like a butterfly allowing her to choose if she wants to fly or come back and stay... either or we left eachother for the greater good of one another.
man same is with me... we boys think that we are getting exactly what the girls want but they... are just... what to say out of the world type of thing most of the tym and always at those tyms where an serious heart decision is to made or taken... they do just opposite of what we have actually assumed or thinking of...
I think it has to do with gaining dominance
may be... well its an issue where all our intelligence and... decision making capability act reverse😜
But u should... Continue with ur efforts just be with him and do what naturally comes to u for her, I am sure one day or another she will appreciate it and... Will accept ur love, hoping for the best... All the best for ur near future
For the same reasons men do it as well. Because she doesn't want "run out" of guys to be with and maybe you're a safe bet
that's interesting. She's not trying to manipulate me? to make me feel less without her, so that she feels she has more control over me?
Oh no, not at all. Does sound like it to me. Maybe she's the type to take things really slow and are afraid to tell you this and lose your attention and that's why she's always busy and doing other stuff
well I cut her off what should I do? she kept changing the subject everything I would ask why she doesn't see me. so I just cut her out completely... it's been 30 days so far no text no call or contact of any sort.
Do you miss her?
in a slight sense yes... but she never tries to see me? even though she gives me so many signs she still wants me.
How old is she?
she is thirty five years old
Call her and ask her if she wants to meet you and pick the day. If she doesn't tell her that you really like her but you feel like she's not being genuine when it comes to what she wants from you. If she doesn't change her behavior you should move on for good.
she never picks up her phone the moment I say I'm moving on she gets defensive to make me stay and chat with her. but she tries to over power me by cold texting.
Have you seen her in person?
of course she was my ex. she lived 5 blocks down from me
Oh ok didn't know. Text her instead of calling her then
I have she usually brings up the past to justify why she won't see me
Honestly just let the situation like that. She wants you but not that much. I'm sure you treated her right giving her all that attention and sometimes we just want anything to do with someone but keep making it seem like it just for the way they treat us. She likes the attention, wants it without the commitment
I see... damn.. thank you so much for the clarification. I appreciate your time.
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