Most Helpful Guy
The following things helped me :
- removed everything that reminded me of her (that includes pictures, items and gifts)
- started to have some 'me' time, for me it was reading books, video games, exercising, working harder on my job.
- kept telling myself that the time is on my side and that I took the high moral road and it would be worth it
- stopped talking to my friends / family about her or asked them not to mention her to me anymore
Took me a couple of months with all that, but I came out stronger and now I've reached the point that I am over it completely.
Most Helpful Girl
Buying a bunch of pretty dresses. Hitting the gym. Dating other people. Meeting people who give back the hope that good, attractive men still exist. Getting a new job (that was a couple weeks before the breakup but it helped keep me busy). The order of things doesn't matter much.2