Most Helpful Guy
"He was also at one point not coming home at night."
1. What do you think was happening when he was not coming home?
2. Have you asked him what he was doing when he was not coming home? If not, why not?
3. What do you think all of this means for your marriage?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
So why did he get married? I swear sometimes I wonder how y'all end up with these lame ass dudes. In marriages that adrenaline rush excitement will not always be there that's a FACT. It's up to you two to keep the fire between you burning. I would be heartbroken if my husband wouldn't kiss me or want to spend time with me. Anyways him not coming home makes me think he's up to shit, it's time you investigate a little more. If he's cheating then you need to leave, if he isn't then you communicate and you work it out. You both need to make effort. No one said marriage is easy buttercup.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE