So there's this guy I used to really like and in the past talked to/dated on off. The last time we hung out was several months ago and tbh he pretty much ghosted. I'm still friends with him on social media and I never did anything to retaliate like send a long message or confront him becuase I decided it wasn't worth my time and he couldn't say I hadn't been anything but nice to him while we were talking. He's going to me moving away to go to college and I know a lot of people have been telling him good luck. I am glad that he's finally going to college and doing what he wants and I would wish him luck, but would it come across a desperate and or petty if I did that considering we haven't been talking and by this point I'm honestly not interested in him romantically anymore.
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its not desperate or showing any signs of affection - its just you being a nice person and wishing him well. Go ahead, dont let what anyone thinks hold you back from being pleasant0