I thought he was the most greatest guy in the world.
Then he ignored me for 3 weeks... I didn't know why until later on when he changed his relationship status from being in a relationship with me to his ex girlfriend. Then I found out later he was still sleeping with her and got her pregnant whilst still with me...
No call or text from him to explain what was going on. Not even an apology.
This all happened 3 months ago and the only thing I ever feel is anger and hurt and often wondering "did I even mean anything to him at all?" It hurts so much that I don't know how to get past it. I have no closure at all.
He betrayed me, he lied to me and he abandoned me... was I just some replacement? Am I really that easy for people to forget? Do my feelings mean nothing at all to anyone? All those nights we had deep talks really mean nothing to him at all?
As well as being my boyfriend he was also my best friend and now all I'm left with is feeling like I have no value to anyone and finding myself thinking suicidal thoughts.
I want to stop feeling this way but I don't know how.
Most Helpful Guy
He made a choice and now there's a baby in the equation. Step back and look at it from this person perspective. Would you fault him for leaving you pregnant? I'm sure there is a lot of anger and bitterness. I get that and I understand that. However, he made a choice to stand up and make the best of it, by staying with the mother. I would hope he'll be around for that child for the rest of his natural life. Too many single moms out there where men made a choice and didn't live up to their responsibility.0
Most Helpful Girl
girl I feel the same way but the mistake u made was not confronting him... to have clouser my way would to confront him n say "wtf is wrong with u y tf u gon drop me like that n not tell me shit y AND yr pose to be my bes frien what am I to u some girl u used to try n get over yr ex.. yea explain this to me u must have an excellent explanation for the pain u caused me" ... if u still need closure u should do this✨0
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