I was clueless very trusting of her, but one time she left her phone in the bathroom and I planned on hiding at just as a prank, she thought she left it at her friends place just next door, so she went there to look for it. While she was gone my cousin was calling her, he then texted her to come over. I confronted her when she came back and she couldn't deny it! I told her to get the fuck out and never talk to me again and that's exactly what she did!
What is hurting me the most is that I never suspected before, we were having sex 5 days a weak average, how could she have the fuckin' time!!! I feel stupid as fuck. What is making this mode difficult for me is that I hate cheating, and I always work on preventing it from ever happening and I always thought that she would never cheat because she hates cheaters too, that's why am really confused and miserable. So am really thinking about hurting her for revenge.
PS we dated for 2 years.
- Should I kick his ass in disguise by a baseball bat.
- Should I sleep with her sister that has the hots for me but not my type?
- Should I ask her on a date and slip her something that will make her sick for quit sometime? and I don't know what to slip her!
- Or what should I fuckin' do? cuz I can't let this go!!
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"Should I kick his ass in disguise by a baseball bat?" Do you want to go to jail?
"Should I sleep with her sister that has the hots for me but not my type?" That proves that you are just as low as she is. Is that what you want to prove?
"Should I ask her on a date and slip her something that will make her sick for quit sometime? and I don't know what to slip her!" Great plan! More jail time involved here.
"Or what should I fuckin' do? cuz I can't let this go!!" Well, whatever you might do for revenge, it accomplishes the following:
1. It doesn't change the fact that she let your cousin stick his dick in the hole that was supposed to be reserved for just you.
2. It doesn't change the person who she is and it doesn't make her regret her actions.
3. It potentially spurs her to seek further revenge against you.
4. It wastes more of your time on someone who is not worth wasting time on.
The best revenge is to move forward with your life, act as if she doesn't exist, be successful in your school/job, find someone else and have a successful and satisfying relationship.
Look at it like this: She is a pig. When you get down to wrestle with a pig, the pig has fun and you end up covered in mud.