my ex wife and I of 12 years, are pretty good friends today. I asked her who she was most in love with ever. her first love, the father of her boys the guy she is sing now who is pretty cool me or the guy she started sing before we got divorced. I wanted her to say me so I can try and fight to get her back but, I would understand any answer exempt the one guy she picked. the guy she had an affair with. it made me realize that I was never that important and so easy now to get over her finally after 2 years. she said it was the past and there might still be hope for us some day. how should I take this?