So i have lost feelings for my boyfriend of 4 years, we have 1 child together. i have tried to make it work but i can't, he doesn't try and i have nothing left for him to take. i have been trying to find myself as i feel very confused. Anyway i have broken up with him on several occasions and he just keeps brushing it off and acting like nothing has happened. we live in my dads basement suite so why would i move out? if we didn't i would just leave... and asking my dad to help kick him out isn't an option. I just do not know what to do anymore...
Most Helpful Guy
This is happening quite common nowadays. We are going to have a generation of bastard children with single parents occupying our planet. And then those children will grow up and repeat the same mistake like their parents did. It is a never ending vicious cycle which can only be stopped if the child manages to break it. We can expect a rise in MGTOW and feminists or broken homes with broken families.
You can't exactly kick him out since you aren't the owner or the one, who rents your home. Get your shelter and only then you can have him out.0
Most Helpful Girl
Firstly, I understand losing feelings for a guy. I go through that. But before I jump to the conclusion I want to end it, I look for a reason to stay with him. I try to get new ways to make me fall in love all over again. Because a lot of people can end a relationship or marriage but only a few can mend things. But I don't know the situation. Secondly, maybe he is considering the child in this case. Growing up a child isn't easy alone and yes you don't mind having him pay but it's not about the money. Maybe talk to him try and reconnect with him. Don't just throw away a four year relationship. Make sure before you make the decision to throw it away you really want that for both you and the child. ☺️ it's just my opinion1
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