a couple of days ago i checked his phone and saw that he was messaging another girl on twitter. they had barely introduced themselves and the conversation stopped the day after due to her not replying.
i confronted him and told him that i couldn't be with him because after this i was never going to trust him so he gave me his passwords so that i would stay. he changed his passwords the next day and offered to give them to me again but i said no (i'm still logged in but he doesn't know) we're still together but i want to know if he's going to really be faithful on the future so i messaged the girl that he was messaging. i told her everything and asked her if she would send him a message again so i could see if he would reply to her or ignore her for me. She agreed to message him but now i don't k ow if i want to go through with it.
Im scared of him replying and having to break up with him. and i also feel like i could be pushing it because it wouldn't be him initiating a conversation anymore... help me 😭
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Its so sad when you feel like you have to resort to that and to hear that you're not just doing it out of anger or spite but a fear that you have that maybe you can't trust him.
Hard to say what you should do from this, but really need to think about him and what he's done or said and figure out do you really trust him? can you trust him? Would it be better to find someone else before you get hurt? They're important questions.1