a couple of days ago i checked his phone and saw that he was messaging another girl on twitter. they had barely introduced themselves and the conversation stopped the day after due to her not replying.
i confronted him and told him that i couldn't be with him because after this i was never going to trust him so he gave me his passwords so that i would stay. he changed his passwords the next day and offered to give them to me again but i said no (i'm still logged in but he doesn't know) we're still together but i want to know if he's going to really be faithful on the future so i messaged the girl that he was messaging. i told her everything and asked her if she would send him a message again so i could see if he would reply to her or ignore her for me. She agreed to message him but now i don't k ow if i want to go through with it.
Im scared of him replying and having to break up with him. and i also feel like i could be pushing it because it wouldn't be him initiating a conversation anymore... help me 😭
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Okay so, just to make sure that I'm reading this correctly:
Your boyfriend was talking (just talking, not like inviting her to come over and lick his ballsack or something?) to a girl on twitter (whom he barely knew and barely bothered to introduce himself to) for one day.
And you immediately think he's cheating on you? I don't intend to be mean but you've got some trust issues. There's around 3.5 billion women on this planet, and you can't possibly expect him to avoid these for the rest of his life just because you think he'll have sex with them the very moment they are having a fun conversation. He should be allowed to have casual female friends if he wants to - you have no say in that - and if you do think you have that right, you are being way too clingy.
(Admitted, if they're exes of his or if there was some other sexual history, it would be different.)2
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