Well my boyfried has recently been ignoring me and showing no intresrt what so ever for a couple of weeks but recently he's been COMPLETLY HAVING NO CONTACT WITH ME... I tried to talk to him but he just ended up hanging up and ignoring my calls when I tried to call him. I'm going to take this as we are done because there's nothing more I can do because he just ends up ignoring me. It really hurts me that he's doing this to me because I'm lost and would like closure. He was my first everything and it's really hard for me to not think about him or what he's doing or why he's doing this to me. I loved him and cared so much for him I was there for him at his lowest I was there for him when he would make mistakes and wanted my help. It frustrates me knowing how easy this is for him to do to me while I'm over here hurting and crying in bed. I honestly don't know how to deal with this and if anyone has some advice I would really appreciate it. Or if he does end up calling what should I say? We have also been dating for a year and seven months
How do you deal with a break up like this😞?
What Guys Said 2
when you ride the relationship roller-coaster the lows really suck. the price we pay for the unbelievable highs! has either of you said the words "it's over"? there's definitely nit something going on for him he couldn't tell you about? you haven't been unfaithful and he's found out? he's not found someone new? there must be a reason, to up sticks and leave you after over a year and a half. he'll be hurting too. if he insists on not talking to you then you have to just rose above it and accept that's the case. hang out with your friends do stuff, go bowling, trips out to the zoo or paintballing, physical activity can help you a lot, makes you feel better and takes your mind off of it. you might also process it differently and make a realisation of what has happened. I'm sorry for you, losing a loved one is literally the worst. just try and take comfort in knowing you have loved, when love came along, so you can love again when it decides to come back in whoever it may be :)1
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What Girls Said 1
I deal with a break up by moving the fuck on deleting ever picture of us everything and anything the past is the past and look forwards to the future. I also don't ever try to contact that person ever again they are irrelevant and I go on with my life.0
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