Not exactly an ex, but a guy and I who became good friends and had mutual feelings for eachother, told eachother how we felt. We talked about dating but decided it wouldn't work right now and then a bunch of other stuff went down via text and now we r not even friends anymore- not on social media or anything. And I'm pretty sure he really doesn't like me anymore...
This is pretty fresh and I am only in town for another day (was here for a week and hadn't seen him) but a family friend is having an engagement party- I know he'll be there. Should I go? He acts like he hates me now but I want to see his face. Everything was over text and I think that was why it was so bad. On the other hand, it might just bring out difficult feelings, and he might react in a bad way and make me feel worse.
But I'm flying home afterwards and might not see him for months otherwise...
What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
I have a similar situation. There was a girl I was just friends with in high school. We went on a few dates years later. Long story short it didn't work out. I like to text at least once a day and she hated texting ever (wasn't just me, other guys I know that dated her said they had he exact same problem) this girl is the sister of a kid on my little brothers soccer team. Not to mention she lives down the street from me. So I see her all the time. In all honesty don't worry about it. He's not gonna attack you or beat you up. If he waves then wave back. If he ignores you then ignore him. I understand it's tough cause you just wanna expunge those people out of your life but they still exist. But you're not there to see him anyway. So you'll be fine 😄0
Most Helpful Girl
I see no problem with that, I'd go to show him that I'm doing just fine after a break up with him and show him what he lost lol... there us nothing to doubt or fear unless you got some unfinished business with him...0