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If she gives knowingly gives you Herpes or HIV, you are allowed to slap her.If you found out the child you're raising is not yours, you can slap herIf a woman spits in your face, that should be an automatic slap (all genders)If she hits you first, you can hit her back.So there are justifiable reasons for a man to hit a woman.
i like ur answer cheers let's follow each other
Ermm ''If she gives knowingly gives you Herpes or HIV''. Isn't that like giving someone a death sentence... Slapping someone for that... I'd first try and take her to court and if that didn't work I'd strip her and leave her in the middle of the wilderness somewhere lol.
n then give the disease to her
If she hits you, you are technically in the right to hit her back. Whether or not you do is up to you.
I don't think you would. Least force to deescalate the situation?
I'm just saying if a woman puts her hands on you, she's given a green light for you to do the same. Some guys have qualms about this, some don't.
Police. And I'm just asking, what about you?
Personally, I wouldn't punch a girl if she punched me. I know I can do significantly more damage to her with just one punch compared to her 100 punches.
Police. That thinking is sexy but you know that already.
Well, if you say so.
i think u need to grow a pair and whoop her ass
i say violence is a last-resort response, regardless of gender. in other words, he should not hit her back unless1) she is threatening him with a weapon or2) has given him reason to believe his life is in danger if she's not incapacitated immediately.
So many pussy beta-males on this forum... You wanna know why REAL men don't hit women? Because if we did, they'd end-up in the ER or dead... The guys on here who have a fetish for beating women most likely have stick-like forearms and no punching-power to speak of... You're all basically females yourselves so go ahead and hit em' if you want... It's not like you're capable of doing any real damage. HAHAHAHA
so what are you saying
i don't think we a "fetish" for hitting women at, all not me, it's just pure self defence and real men defend them selfs from ALL. And also where it saying beat her up if she hits you just slap or punch her as she did that to u.
I've been hit by females before and I've never felt the need to "defend myself". I usually get a good laugh out of it... 9 out of 10 females are basically incapable of inflicting any real physical damage anyway.
VRD. I think women who have never been hit by a man, even an average man using his full strength, have no idea how bad it would hurt. I don't know but I can Imagine. Some women are big angry talkers. The comedian Bill Burr has a very good take on men hitting women. And it's really hilarious but he says do women ever deserve to be hit? Of course they do! But do we do it? No because guys would hurt them too much. And if another guy did the shit that women do to men they wouldn't hesitate to punch the other guy.
@Fancygoldfish Yeah, a lot of women get angry and start going off. But I think men should have enough self-control and self-respect to refrain from physical-violence... Haha, and Burr is a funny guy.
think about u hit her she'll never do that again u might if changed her life in a good way she'll be thankful
you don't have to bash em or hit em with full force just enough to show her who's boss
Why is it that guys like you always fantasize about how they can hit women and get away with it?
woman want equal grounds. you attack us? we will slap back! simple as that. I will never hit a woman with a fist tough.
I don't think guys fantasize about hitting women and getting away with it. It's just taboo kind of and looked down upon when a man puts his hands on a woman even after taking kicks and haymakers from a woman.
@MarkGerrits Okay thanks for telling us your no punching allowed fantasy
@PoliceLivesMatter They clearly do though. Look at all these guys talking about how they would and wouldn't hit women and what they'd do in specific situations. These guys have put a lot of thought into this. What else would you call that other than fantasy?
OP the more you talk the more sure I am that you ARE that 16 year old boy from the other day...
The consensus from men and women is the same and it's this: if a woman hits you, you have the right to hit back.
@PoliceLivesMatter The consensus is: why are these guys so into thinking about situations where they get to hit women?
Just one situation. That's when she hits you first.
@PoliceLivesMatter And yet each one is unique.
There's a proverb or saying in East that says it's actually quite healthy to beat your wife/girlfriend every 3 days.
@bellepepper what you mean with fantasy? it already happened. Feminist started yapping out of nowhere (they where demonstrating). I did not provoking or anything. she starts shouting in my face. and then slaps me out of nowhere... so I slapped her back. she was actually shocked about that I hit her back in her own way. she got quiet real fast.
@MarkGerrits Way to brag about assaulting people. You totally disproved my point for sure by telling us about how you hit people. Good job.
@BasilBrushSays Wow! it's like you and @MarkGerrits are linked! Maybe you two can bond over hitting people <3
lol its self defense :').. they wanna be our equals so they get treated as one. I don't brag about it. I'm simply telling you that it's not a fantasy. are you one of those feminists or what? and do you think I wanna hit women? it sounds like you live in ur own little world over there :')..
@MarkGerrits you've bragged about hitting women three times in this thread alone...
your view on bragging is totally wrong. but you continue living in ur own world. have fun with that.. bb
@MarkGerrits ohhh so you don't know what words mean. I get it now
Women need that good old Victorian patriarchy smack down from time to time to bond that relationship... (whooosh!)
@BasilBrushSays Another guy bragging about how he wants to hit women. Thanks for helping prove me right bro!
I think you might have been mistaken. Nobody wants to hit women. I think what is implied is that mainstream thinking will have you believe that it's never okay to hit a woman. Whatsoever. Which isn't true. The example that is provided is pretty cut and dry: if a woman hits you, you hit her back. I don't see what you don't get about that.
@PoliceLivesMatter I literally have 3 guys in just this thread telling me about how they like hitting women and how they like thinking about hitting women!And now it's four since you apparently also like thinking about assaulting women.
I highly suggest reading the comments again, you'll find that everyone basically agrees that hitting a girl is warranted only if she hits back. Otherwise, everyone is just teasing and joking. You seem to be taking this too seriously, everyone is joking.
@PoliceLivesMatter How about you try reading them since every single one of you is telling me how you like hitting women.
@MarkGerrits oh hey~ did you see where your friend went?
I'm curious what is ur definition of friend? other feminazis ^^?
skipping the next subject.. she probs is 13 n just trolling
or maybe you've never had a nice fucking, after all that is what science says that women get depressed if they don't have sex sometimes hahahah
@MarkGerrits Wow! There are so many words you don't understand! Do you know there are things called dictionaries?
can't come up with anything else in that simple brain of urs ^^? think bigger. :')
It's push-back against the age-old meme that men are not to hit women. This wouldn't be happening if that old trash never existed.
"What else would you call that other than fantasy?"This is what it looks like when people use philosophy to explore a problem. "Men should never hit women" is a problem. All of this conjecture is the examination of that problem.
The level of repetition used to push the "men should never hit women" is because it's not true. True things don't need to be said over and over again.So the short answer to your question is, "We talk about it so much because it's verboten." If the meme didn't exist, nobody would have cause to say anything at all. Everyone would just understand that if you put your hands on someone else you can expect to get blasted.
agreed. even when the saying was created as to never hit a woman. it never stopped from happening. it's a daily thing that happens in households. it's happens when it's justified and when it's not. people just gotta get over the fact that if you hit a man you should expect a punch back. and if it's not hitting they will go on about it will be the fact that the person didn't hit. most guys who don't hit a woman just simply think that they won't hit the weaker kind. that's what's wrong with this world. guys get blamed anyways no matter what happens ;). we live in a fucked up world and these feminazis are not making the world any better with their way of thinking.
trump will end feminism n their female privilege. more men r know woken up by this feminism
Trump can do shit in the Netherlands tough. but then again this country is fucked up anyways. with how things are going this country will only get worse ^^.
@Transigence You have 1000 characters. Please use them instead of spamming my alerts and making me unwilling to read anything you write.
go cry somewhere else Miss. Pathetic.
@MarkGerrits Oh you're not going to tell us *again* about how you enjoy the idea of hitting women?
Can I give you a hug BellePepper? I think you'd like a hug.
Hmm, well i could say that i wanna slap you.. but then they will either remove my reaction or even punish me for it as it could be seen as a threat. But then again i'm above that. i won't slap unless being slapped 1st ;). Gotta love how blind you are to words tough. if you could have read them you would have known that i didn't enjoy it ;).
@PoliceLivesMatter I don't accept hugs from men who want to hit me
@PoliceLivesMatter she will just hate the hug mate, as much as she hates all men it seems ;).
She might have a change of heart. If you and me both gave her a hug, she might change her mind about men being "women beaters."
@PoliceLivesMatter sorry mate ur on ur own, this one is to rotten, she's not worth my time or hugs :3.
@MarkGerrits honey this is telling you to get a dictionary and watching you flop around saying how you don't hit women and then telling us how you hit women. If you can't even handle this you can't handle what women hating you would look like.
Come here BellePepper, you need a big hug. I'm so sorry you hate men.
i can go on and explain it entirely again, but ur just to blind for the truth ;).i'm done with you girl, i had enough fun riling you up :3
@PoliceLivesMatter Did you know an average of three woman a day are being murdered by their romantic partners a day and a woman is assaulted or beaten every 9 *seconds*? So all of those women weren't hitting first and you know what happens when they do finally hit back to try and save themselves? Men hit them harder because of posts like this that okay men hitting women. How about no one hits no one else and no one fantasizes about hitting anyone else. Let's try that for a change. Time how long it takes to read this and think on the women who were hurt in that time.
@MarkGerrits bro. It takes more than a little boy who can't use a dictionary and likes to hit women to rile me. There's so many of you after all.
your reactions showed different ^^
@MarkGerrits Honey you think it's okay to hit women. You clearly can't read social settings well.
Babe you clearly think every man is ur enemy, your one to talk :')..
Look, obviously I was just joking around just like every guy on here and I highly doubt that statistic is true. No one likes beating women, it's just a scenario that was brought up that pretty much everyone can agree on. But, there's always one who overreacts...
@MarkGerrits uh oh better go tell that to all the guys who dated me and want to date me
@PoliceLivesMatter It absolutely is true. It's from the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. Clearly there are several people who enjoy hitting women since those women aren't hitting themselves and it can't just be the one woman being hit. And just FYI: it's not a good look for someone who wants to support police officers to go around talking about how hitting people is funny. Kinda undermines your future discussions
I'm going to say this once again: if you look at all of the messages on this post, you'll see that everyone agrees that if a woman hits you, your justified in hitting back. Your overreaction caused everyone to joke around tease you. Ask me if I enjoy hitting women. Go ahead ask. I'll answer: No. same with every guy.
@PoliceLivesMatter If I look at the messages on this post I see four boys who enjoy talking about how they like to hit women.
My apologies. Each time I said everything I wanted to say, until I thought of something else. Usually I'm writing 3k buffer-breakers. I'd appreciate the ability to edit a comment (with edit history intact, of course).
"If I look at the messages on this post I see four boys who enjoy talking about how they like to hit women."You are a liar.
@Transigence And yet all four of them said "i'd hit a woman"
You said they LIKE to hit women. I saw nothing suggesting that -- that's a charge of malice that's baseless and dishonest. You're just hateful and dishonest.Hell, your original comment is an outright slander.
@Transigence But they also told me they do like hitting women and they fantasize about how they can get away with hitting women.
To be clear, are you talking about the guys in this thread?
Gotcha. So not only are you a liar, you're willing to do it in black and white, in public. Smart move.
There no point arguing with a women, they run by emotions nothing gets to them besides that he doesn't care about me ahah
Hey OP can you remind me which one of us has had their comments removed?
@Transigence Hey bro if you want to ignore what's right in front of you in black and white there's not anything anyone can really do for you is there?
Nobody here has stated a wish to hit women. That's a pathological aspersion on your part. All we're talking about is when it's OK to hit women. If you think there's NEVER a time that it's okay to hit women, then you are a female supremacist.
@Transigence yes they have. All four of them have detailed how they want to hit women and at least two o them bragged about how they've already hit women Or maybe I don't think ANYONE should be hitting or fantasizing about hitting anyone else
Obviously, optimally, nobody should hit anyone else. Frankly, that's what I think all of these guys are saying (which you are lying about).But there ARE, in reality, times where you are being assaulted. During those times, it's right to fight back (if it's tactically tenable). That's why the law reflects exactly that.
@Transigence They're not saying that since as I told you they're bragging about how they've *already* hit women. Please don't tell us about your fantasies of women attacking you.
I personally think that if I myself physically hit a man he better hit me back. We all say we want equality but then we say stupid things like "you can't hit me I'm a girl." Well I think that is stupid either we all get treated exactly the same or we shut up about equality.
Sam you sound like a good sport !
I don't think girls should hit guys or guys should hit girls. Not much can be solved with violence in my opinion. If you need to hit something I suggest a punching bag?
It is never OK to hit a girl. Or a guy, come to that. Violence NEVER resolves an issue, but only escalates it. Something has upset you enough to strike out? Then turn round and walk away. THAT is the way to solve an issue. So it never gets to the point where you hit anyone back in retaliation.
WRONG. Violence is sometimes the appropriate response to the initiation of force. For example, if someone is attacking you with violence, the right thing to do is defend yourself with violence."Something has upset you enough to strike out? Then turn round and walk away. THAT is the way to solve an issue."You MUST be a school teacher. Never turn your back on someone who might hurt you. You don't get to just "walk away" from every situation.And violence totally resolves a lot of situations.
@Transigence No, I am not a teacher. I am a research grad. I can still teach you to read, though!I said, "Something has upset you enough to strike out?" That means wanting to give the first hit. Understand so far?Then I said, "Then turn round and walk away." That means no one hits anyone else. With me so far?So what could have been a very violent situation turns into a non-event. It is guys like you that hit first and ask questions after. Typical US attitude.
"It is guys like you that hit first and ask questions after. Typical US attitude."I'm going to give this a pass, this first time. You don't know me. I've NEVER hit anyone first, but I have been bullied. What I can tell you is that bullies don't give a shit about what you think or what could prevent violence. That leaves people like me in a position to have to fight. It's not our choice.I can read just fine, but maybe you can use some help with your reading comprehension.You said, "It's NEVER okay to hit a girl..." This is what I'm responding to. I said that in this situation it's sometimes right to hit her back, which it is.Sometimes the issue that needs to be resolved is you are being physically attacked. This can happen for any number of reasons, such as they are angry with you and they can't control themselves, they are mugging you, they are an enemy soldier and they are trying to kill you, they are trying to sexually assault you, etc...
... And what you don't seem to understand is that victims are not in control of the actions of their victimizers. Your solution to this problem is that "Well the problem simply shouldn't exist in the first place." Except for as lovely as a commentary about the sad state of affairs that it is, it's not any kind of solution. Beating your victimizer into the ICU is a solution, and it's recognized as legitimate by law. You're ALLOWED TO DEFEND YOURSELF (that means being violent)."Something has upset you enough to strike out? Then turn round and walk away. THAT is the way to solve an issue. So it never gets to the point where you hit anyone back in retaliation."Who are you talking about? The victim or the victimizer? The person who is so upset they might lash out first is the potential victimizer. But hitting someone back in retaliation? That's not the victimizer. You need to be clear who you're talking about...
... because you're blaming the victim for the aggression of the victimizer. This bullshit happens all the time and it happened to me growing up in my local indoctrination camp. Bullies were regularly absolved of wrongdoing (initiation of force) and victims were punished for defending themselves. This is a gross, gross injustice, and it's perpetuated by people like you who don't know the difference between a victim and a victimizer, don't know what "initiation of force" means, and are perfectly willing to blame the victim of violent crimes for the actions of their victimizer.Then you want to blame your shortcomings on my nationality? Get bent.
if she hits you, you have the right to hit her back..
Why does no one answer questions about EDM but questions about other genres get so many responses?www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2516067-what-is-your-favourite-edm-song-for-the-summer
@TheUglyVirgin because I don't know shit about EDM lol
Why am I the only one who listens to Electronic Dance Music and why do you all laugh at it? It's not funny. Do you see me laughing at your shitty pop music?
Here's a funny monologue by Bill Burr on this subject. https://youtu.be/rksKvZoUCPQ
Self defense yeah, everyone should defend themself if someone attacks them.
your pretty follow me
I got an idea. How about, *gasp* no one hits ANYBODY
Self defence. I've done it myself... girls grabbing me etc and being all ''girl power'' in my face. One of them i hit a bit too hard lol but yeah they deserve the equality of an upper cut.
If its @BellePepper I'd curb stomp.
If you're at risk at great bodily harm, or others are at risk, you should (not can) always hit back. Again sometimes, you have no choice.
I think this calls for a new Take..
Valid question being asked here considering the fact that 50% of dating and domestic violence incidents are started by women.
When you're Sean Connery. I think thats the only exception.
I think Sean held back too.
I'd never hit a girl back i would restrain her from hitting mebut not hit her back.
Good guy, Good answer. Thanks
@Fancygoldfish Thank you for your kindness :) You're Welcome :)
I guess if it's life or death. I can't imagine a scenario where I would need to.
If she hits you, hit back. Equality... right?
hah you again yeah, i agree with you, you give very good advice.
I like the way you think
You can hit a girl at any point in time in which you would hit a guy.
It's never ok to hit a girl, and neither is it ok for a girl to hit a guy.
When she doesn't make a good sandwich.
ok sounds fair
When she won't shut her big mouth, a fist always works ✊
Self defense and life or death. Do it. Hit her.
never ok just of its life or death
Life or death
You lot want to cheer girl power but no men can't defend themselves because you are too weak... make your mind up.
this is why we should've just ignore women they can't make up their minds even in relationships. i wanna go there no let's try that maybe we should. crazy
Whenever I need to
i do not hit back..
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