I need to understand why men would lead a women on just to make themselves feel good. There is a man at the same location were I work that has been flirting with me for a couple of months ( I thought). He stared at me and always looked me in the eyes or face. He would walk towards me and get close into my personal space. If I happen to be in the same location as him he would always position himself were I would be in his view. Then things started to change when I walk into the room he would quickly look down or away and now he is completely ignoring me. This man really got my attention and I really began to like him a LOT no one has ever looked at me with such intense, he literally left me with my mouth open. I've done nothing to him but try and be friendly and polite, I always smile. I work out so I'm in pretty decent shape and I look better then I have in a long time. I dress well and receive compliments by both men and women.
I don't understand why a grown man would play such a cruel game. I really thought this man liked me and its crushing to know that it was just a game. The thrill of the chase!
Guess what gentlemen for those of you that like to play this game. Its mean and very hurtful also cruel because the girl may really fall for you. This little game has made me feel stupid and ashamed for allowing myself to think that he was maybe going to ask me out. Guys if you have no intention of making a move on a girl why play games. Just let them be and go for someone that you will make a move on. Although I can see this person everyday I will avoid them like the plague! I don't need to be anywhere around this CREEP!
How do I do this?
Most Helpful Guy
Why not just turn his constant staring into more useful? Let it fill your pride and self-esteem. You know he thinks you hot, even if he does go hot and cold. So you should take notice of this. You are attractive, why waste it on one fellow? Use the adrenaline this man gives you and take it with you. Meet more men, go out to other places. Let other men notice you, not just this idiot from a cubicle.3