My boyfriend broke up with me about three months ago. I have been feeling pretty lonely lately. I know that time heals all wounds. I just feel like I'm untouchable. I feel like no one is ever going to want to be with me again. I know I am only 23 and that's kinda stupid to think. I just feel like its true. No one will love me or want me again. He was my first and only love. I just can't get the thought out of my head.
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Well, if he was your only one, then maybe that's it. You haven't had very many relationships to make you think that there will be others. The duration of your relationship could also be a factor. If it was a long relationship, then yeah... it's gonna hurt a while and it's going to hurt a lot, especially if the break-up was bad. But just push through and you will see that, in time, you will feel ready to find new love. Spend some time with friends and go out more than usual. Getting your mind off of it will help soothe your pain.
As for you ending up alone, no one can say. But you should understand that if you continue to go on moping and crying about it, you will end up being alone. I don't mean to be rude in saying that. But it's a fact that people who think they will be alone end up alone. So, spend a little more time letting your feelings out and then start spending time rebuilding yourself by going out with friends and getting your mind off of it. Then start believing in yourself and you will see that you can accomplish anything you set your mind to.0