I might sound rude and shallow but it isn't doing anything for me now.
The guy I am seeing since past 5 months or so is not the same normal man for me anymore.
We both decided to take our relationship to the next intimacy level but it failed for me.
It turns out that this poor dude has abnormal body as in he has hair growing on his shoulders back and butt as well. Not only that he has overly hairy chest / belly and legs to add upto it.
Now I haven't ever known that civilised modern evolved men can grow hair on this odd parts.
To me he isn't that man anymore. I see him as abnormal less evolved human male. He still has genes of pre historic caveman I guess.
Want to dump him ASAP.
Am I shallow?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, you are also stupid and judgmental. Though you still have the right to break up over those things. If you don't like to be with him, then don't be with him. Let him find someone he deserves instead.1
Most Helpful Girl
sure it may be judgmental, but everyone is allowed to have their preferences. don't ever think that you're obligated to be attracted to someone or to date them. if you ever just stop feeling it, you can always breakup with the person and it's totally fine.1