The guy I am seeing since past 5 months or so is not the same normal man for me anymore.
We both decided to take our relationship to the next intimacy level but it failed for me.
It turns out that this poor dude has abnormal body as in he has hair growing on his shoulders back and butt as well. Not only that he has overly hairy chest / belly and legs to add upto it.
Now I haven't ever known that civilised modern evolved men can grow hair on this odd parts.
To me he isn't that man anymore. I see him as abnormal less evolved human male. He still has genes of pre historic caveman I guess.
Want to dump him ASAP.
Am I shallow?
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Hahaha I feel ya! I dumped a guy for the same reason once. I mean some girls like it or don't mind it, but for me it's a turn off. I can put up with anything, the only thing I can't stand are overly hairy or fat guys. It's not shallow, it's just who we are.
My hairy guy had so much hair on his shoulders and his back and his but and everywhere! My friends who hooked me up with him knew about this and they didn't tell me. I saw it when we were supposed to have sex for the first time, he took his cloths off and then I saw all that abnormal, sweaty (since it was summer) and smelly hair, arghh god! I told him I forgot I had something to do and ran away. I considered telling him to shave it all but then my friends told me not to bother because everyone told him that already many times and he just doesn't want to, he likes it like that. Well, okay, goodbye.