out of his life until they can respect me, but he's too obsessive with them for some reason. I am thrilled I'll never have to see them again, it takes stress off me. But I'm worried with the relationship he has, eventually they will be invited by him to our house again. I personally think he should cut them all out of his life, he got mad at me when I said that. What would you expect from your S/O in this situation?
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I would have expected a lot more from him before this point.
As it's gotten to this stage I'd probably let it play out for a few months and see how things settle. If he's able to keep things completely separate and I didn't have to hear about them then it's kind of worked out for the best. If he pushed me to apologise or made any reference to my behaviour then I'd be asking for marriage counselling and considering a separation.
Even without waiting the situation could benefit from counselling... sometimes an impartial third party that's there to mediate both sides can open up a lot of eyes