Recently (in the last 4 months), I've noticed myself becoming increasingly interested in a male coworker and we have this incredible chemistry and connection between us, I've never felt anything like this before. He's also married.
We haven't acted on it but we both feel the same way and I'm wondering now if this is a sign that I need to think about leaving my marriage? I don't mean to be with this other man, I mean the fact that I've fallen so hard for someone surely means that I can't be happy in my marriage and maybe me and my husband are at the end of our journey.
Hoping to get input here from someone that's been through this before or can add insight into how I'm feeling.
Most Helpful Guy
What's been tough in your marriage? try and work on your issues there? you married your husband and as long as he isn't abusive or taking advantage of you and you do/dis love him try and rekindle the spark? ask yourself the question would you be happier without your husband now, then stick out another 3 months and ask yourself again. if your answer both times is yes you either know what to do or to at that point open up to your husband you've had these thoughts and give him one last chance in knowledge of you dissatisfaction to fix your marriage with you. all the best! think about consequences of divorce, did you sign a prenuptial? how would you live/ how would your husband live etc good to think through it all first before you divorce so you can reasonable expectations of what's going to happen
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Most Helpful Girl
The grass is greener where you water it.
Infationation and lust happens where you let it, and you've continued to put yourself in this situation. Giving all of the good, happy and light emotions into a man who isn't your husband. Leaving him with the mundane.
You should absolutely consider leaving your marriage if you're unable to stay away from temptation. Marriage means constant work with your partner and choosing to invest in them every time. Not sneaking around and spending so much time with another man you've had time to develop an emotional attachment. Your husband deserves better than this