Whenever we first started dating, he said that women who like dogs are lonely and bitter. Whenever I pet dogs, he gets pissed off and says that I love on dogs more than him. He also hates kids and doesn't want any. I'm just not sure why he hates kids and animals so much, those are like the most innocent things in the world..
p. s. I'll probably be leaving him soon because I've begun to realize his physical abuse is actually abuse. He thinks im bitchy so thats why he says he chokes me and hits me:/ I sound so pathetic but this is what my lifes come to.. asking weird questions on this site because I'm currently stuck with him.
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, kind of.
If you do decide to stay with him keep an eye on things and be careful.
Also, you and him need to talk about laying some ground rules...
May I ask why you got together with him to start with?
Perhaps it's possible for you to find out what you like and find someone who can provide those things in a way that's actually healthy?
(I'm kind of assuming here that you like a dominant person that might discipline you at times and take control given that you're still with this guy that's beating you, please do correct me if I'm wrong)0
Most Helpful Girl
You're not stuck with him. The only thing that's hindering you is your mind. You can move on as physically you're not stuck like a Siamese twin. You need to break loose from this individual who needs a mental evaluation ASAP. There are so many great people out there who would value you, why not give them a chance? This man is a habit AND habits aren't necessary even if it's hard to leave the familiar behind.0