I've been "talking" to this guy for about two months. I say just "talking" because we haven't gone a date due to him not having a job or his license (he's 18). I really did not want to get into anything with him, because when I first met him at the mall, the attraction just was't there. Nonetheless, being naive and unable to say no, I gave him my number (bad, I know). When we first started texting, I kept it simple and with less embellishment so I wouldn't lead him on. However, I discovered he's really sweet and he told me he loved me only a month in (which at that point I told him he didn't lol and didn't say it back). I actually started to like his sweet and funny ways so I eventually told him I loved him back, because I believed I did a little and he wanted me to. Now, I'm just not so sure. I've gotten into a habit of talking to him all the time and the physical affection, but I just don't feel we're compatible. I'm adventurous; he's not. I wanted to go to the Trap House in Atlanta and go get some of those rolled up ice cream thinys (lol); he thought it was a waste of gas. I like going places, and he doesn't. He thinks he's supposed to see me on my days off work, but I have summer work for school. However, I feel like if I really liked him, I would make time. Even more, I plan to go off to Vandy when I graduate this year (if I'm accepted); he wants to stay here and go to a local college if her doesn't get a football scholarship (there's nothing wrong with that. It's just not my plan). So, should I cut things off with him and if so, how should I do it? I know I probably should, but his mom and sister really like me and paid for me to go on a church trip with him. I would feel so bad. Someone please help me.
Should I Break Up with the Guy I've Been "Talking" To?
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Just tell him how you really feel, just the talking to is hard, you can't really see him to know your true feelings... and if he did really like/you love you he would make an effort.. Love after one month, not impossible but I doubt it... Puppy love maybe on his part0
You don't want to text date someone only to break their heart when someone you actually like comes along... So I'd break it off if I were you.0
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