Moving on from five year relationship?
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This sounds like a relationship I had with an an idiot. We only dated for 3 months but it took an additional 7 months to get rid of him. When it was good, he was sweet and good company. But when it got bad he turned ugly. I was in school and he worked as a manager at the dining facility. We accused me of (laughing) - I'm sorry - he accused me of cheating on him with a man who is 40/50 years older than us. He had his co-workers at the dining facility at my school take pictures whenever they saw me come in. I ate by myself. At the time I didn't have female friends. So I told him: look if I'm such a cheater then you should dump me. He then started calling me names. Said I was a wh**e because I wanted to try anal WITH HIM? Saying I was getting fat. He started stalking me and following me to my dorm. I never cared about what he said bc I always knew my self-worth I just never knew he was going to be this crazy.
Come to find out he was the one who was cheating with someone at HR at my school. She was trying to get me to team with her to get him fired but he ended up going to jail for something unrelated.
Unlike physical injuries, EMOTIONAL injuries take time to heal. You had a 5 year relationship with this guy. You need to give yourself enough to completely heal and forgive yourself.
I'm currently going through somewhat of a breakup (friend I known for several years just wants to be friends). I'm not mad just disappointed. He said he wants me still in his life but seeing him and talking to him now hurts. I'm distancing myself and making an effort to not think about him or the sadness I still feel in my heart0
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