Last Thursday I was at our neighbors! The Boys saw me and said Hello! I ended up spending the entire day with Her and The Boys. We even had a nice family picnic, played with the Boys together and She was laughing, joking talking and acting quite normal. The next day I was also over that way and again She was pretty great! A couple of times she briefly seemed reserved but we all had fun.
After the visit, I left and I did not speak to Her for 4 days. 4 days later on a Tuesday I was at our neighbors as well. I noticed that the lawn needed to be mowed so I mowed it. She was home! I knocked on the door and asked for a garbage bag for things that I had raked up. She was decent and let me read a book to the Boys but then stated that maybe it's best to not stop by anymore - (but She knew that I had to stop by 2 days later to drop off money that I owed Her for something that we had ordered). I didn't argue, I just left! 2 days later I returned with the Money and some clothes that I bought for The Boys. I was there less than 3 minutes. Just time enough to drop things off and give the boys hugs. She told me not to stop by anymore. Which was tough to hear! I love the boys as my own! Why would Her tune change so drastically in 4 days? Obviously, I'll leave her alone & give space but it's confusing. Advice?