When you're in an on-again off-again relationship with someone you love more than anything in the world but each time you're back together they seem to pull away from you and send mixed messages (one night saying I love you, you can spend the night if you want, the next minute not talking for four days straight and making you feel like everything's falling apart once again), how do you know if you should be persistent and keep fighting for the only one you love, or give up once and for all?
Most Helpful Guy
this is just a random thing and I never told this to anyone: but maybe have you both assign a 3rd party observer. like someone who can listen to both sides. it may be just external factors or things you both can't control. so if you both have a known observer he/she can help mediate the issues by listening to both of you.
maybe the problems are misunderstandings and completely unintentional from both parts.1
Most Helpful Girl
When they show no emotions. The opposite of love isn't hate it's indifference 😉
Also you know it's over when they can go years without contacting you.1