Most Helpful Guy
this is just a random thing and I never told this to anyone: but maybe have you both assign a 3rd party observer. like someone who can listen to both sides. it may be just external factors or things you both can't control. so if you both have a known observer he/she can help mediate the issues by listening to both of you.
maybe the problems are misunderstandings and completely unintentional from both parts.
Most Helpful Girl
When they show no emotions. The opposite of love isn't hate it's indifference 😉
Also you know it's over when they can go years without contacting you.